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Monday, March 2, 2015

It seems like 2013 was just yesterday



It’s quite incredible the speed in which the future is coming, or in a way, has already arrived.  Today is March 1st, 2015.  Can it be so?!?
Living in Nepal has taught me many lessons.  Here are a few.
1.       Drama be witcha wherever thou be-est.
Drama, mainly concerning hurt feelings, sometimes exaggerated emotions, and more often than not brought about by feelings of boredom, spite, or jealousy.  No matter how down to the basics your life may seem or how much you want to avoid it, there’s always an opportunity for drama to enter/re-enter into life.
2.       The quality of a human’s life may be determined by his/her access to shelter from the cold.
a.       Although I’ve never been a fan of the cold to begin with, living in Nepal has forced me to realize the ease in which a person can be stuck in a storm without proper shelter, and the inevitable suffering to come if not found in time.  I hope to always remember how dangerous Mother Nature can be and to never take advantage of the comfort of a safe and warm home.
3.       You may not be able to evade life’s ups and downs, but you may be able to control which ups and downs your life will take.
a.       Coming into my second and final year in Nepal, I have begun to think about my options for after Peace Corps service.  Listening to the stories of counter-culture-shock Returned Peace Corps Volunteers (RPCVs) experience upon coming back to the United States does not sound appealing or easy.  No doubt I am excited to get back home to be with family and friends, however I know life does not end with my Peace Corps service and I will most likely have to work hard, struggle, and endure some tough transitions before I find “my place”.  “Life is life, fight for it”.
4.       Work hard, play hard, but never forget what’s most important in your life.
a.       When it’s time to get work done, I think it is an important quality to be able to focus on the task at hand and do your best.  At the same time, life for me has never been 100% about work, and I believe it is important to find time to “be alive” while you are.  And while a “work hard play hard” methodology rings true to a way of life I consider valuable, at the end of the day I find neither work nor play ringing true to the rhythm of my soul.  Neither ‘being the hardest and best worker’ nor ‘being the person who had the most fun’ would fulfill me in the end.  But remembering to love, to care, to forgive, and to carry on when the going gets tough, keeps me in beat with what’s real and what’s important.

Peace and love and warm blankets to all,
Bora

PS- to Bear and Meg: The turkey jerky you sent from Chevron was quite possibly the most delicious, comforting, amazing thing I’ve eaten in the past 1.5 years.  I made it last as long as I could. BIG HUG!!!

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